Hi friends! As you all know this is a safe place to ask any question you might have, and one really common one we get is "how does Sunny prep for pegging." Anyone who is into pegging has this question and we have not found a lot of great insight online so we had a lot of trial and error and we would love to share with you our routine for pegging and even my anal play- especially with us being on camera we have found a way to nearly perfect this!

With kinks becoming more and more mainstream and with how progressive the world of sexuality has become, pegging has been considered the top kink for 2023 by Mashable, Cosmopoliton, and Clips4Sale. But with all of this talk you probably still have no idea how to approach this new curiosity with yourself, your partner, or even how to feel about it with pressures from society. This is where I want to help! Below you will find a quick guide to help guide you through this curiosity around pegging.

Let’s face it: some conversations are easier than others. What to have for dinner or where to take the kids for vacation is going to be a breeze compared to, “Honey, would you lock my cock in a cage and take away the key?”

I wanted to share a new experience that Sunny and I had together because I think it is really important to show how scary vulnerability can be, even when you are in the most secure, safe, kinky, and loving relationship.

Up the ass; around the rim; in and out the anus; shallow, deep, soft hard; behind, on top, beneath, beside; with fingers, hands, toes, tongue, toys, dildo, strap-on, cock: The ways to play in your own and your partner’s butt are limited only by your imagination and sense of adventure.

Chances are, the penis owner in your life is well aware of the prostate and its pleasurable propensities. If they’re asking you for anal play, the prostate may be why.

Here we’ll provide pointers on toys, toy use, pacing, and communication. Together, these posts should give you and your butt-buddy a great start on your anal adventure.

So, your partner has agreed to let you in their “back door.” Congratulations! Now, we’re going to help you give them so much pleasure that they’ll beg you to come back again soon – or at least not bolt the door the next time you knock.

If you’re in a “vanilla” – conventional – sexual relationship, introducing new flavors can feel like a rocky road. Suggesting anal play, in particular, may seem risky. Will the topic repel your partner, or turn them off to you? This is unlikely to happen if you plan ahead. If you have not yet established a safe curious dialogue around sex and sexual desires with your partner that is where we recommend starting, how to talk to your partner about sex.

I wanted to talk about Sunny, I, and @the_adventurous_unicorn first threesome experience- because it really was such an incredible and loving experience and want to talk about the importance of connection for us rather then just hooking up.

So you’re interested in pegging but don’t know how to bring it up to your girlfriend or wife. We’re here to help! We know this conversation can seem scary but it doesn’t have to be. We’ve put together some tips for guiding you through the conversation of bringing up pegging to your partner.

As you know, Sunny and I have an ethically open relationship, and because of that we frequently get asked to help others navigate group play in their relationships. Having a threesome is a common fantasy, and there are very few resources out there on how to ethically navigate one let alone support you in the hard conversation of bringing it up to your partner.  

Some of the most common questions I get asked are "how do I tell my partner I want to try this?", "My partner is so shy when it comes to talking about sex, what can I do?", or the popular "I am really into [blank] but scared to tell my partner." Sex is one of the most intimate and vulnerable spaces in our lives, yet many of us grow up in families who are ashamed to educate us. We go into relationships too embarrassed to bring up desires out of fear of rejection or shame. We don't know how to create a secure relationship with ourselves where we put our fantasies and desires first and often settle for sexual incompatibility.

I want to write this because we get asked a lot how to bring up kinks to your partner, how to try new things with your partner, and how to get your partner to explore more. While I don't have the perfect answer for you because I don't know your relationship like you do, and I don't know how your partner would react to certain things, I am here to try and give you as much advice as I can, be your cheerleader, and help to guide you as a friend in any way we can.

Have you noticed that in most adult movies the male will just walk into or already be in scene with a fully erect penis? Well Sunny and I were talking recently about about this and how this is not an accurate portrayal. We all know that is not always the case during intimacy and it is an unrealistic and possibly damaging expectation to set for yourself or your partner.

The ass gets such a bad rap. Among all the most unconventional forms of sexual pleasure, anal play may be the most maligned, in spite – or maybe because – of its also being exquisitely pleasurable.

Let’s explore these myths, and why they’re (mostly) wrong.

Finding someone who shares your kinks takes conscious self-reflection and a little sleuthing. It’s much more about knowing yourself than knowing where to look. You need to think about your own needs, sexually and emotionally, and clearly define what you’re looking for in a potential new relationship and partner. You must also be secure about your own needs and desires prior to potentially exploring such a vulnerable space with someone else.