We don’t gatekeep pleasure around here. We’ve done the deep dives (and the delightful testing) so you don’t have to. Every item on this guide has been handpicked, personally used, and is 100% body-safe—because your body deserves the best.

We believe in informed pleasure, ethical kink, and supporting brands that give a damn about safety and inclusivity. Whether you’re just starting out or deep in your decadent era, this guide is here to help you stock your treasure chest with confidence.